How we got here
Our story
The braai, 2019
A friend's housewarming in Centurion. Jethro was put in charge of the fire and let it go out twice. Anne took over, got it going in four minutes, and handed him a beer. He has not been allowed near a braai since, and he is fine with that.
The first proper date
Sunday lunch, because Jethro said "dinner is a lot of pressure". It lasted six hours. The waiter brought the bill twice. We still go to Caraffa every month, it’s our favourite restaurant.
The question, December 2025
Another Sunday lunch, this time at Kleinkaap, under the oaks. Jethro had booked the table three weeks earlier and told nobody. Anne said yes and the people at the next table clapped.
Now
A small house in Hazelwood with a big lemon tree, a cat called Pickles who thinks she's a dog, and a wedding that is really just the long lunch we like best, with everyone we love around the table.
"Let's do lunch with a difference."
Jethro, 2019 — and the whole idea of this wedding